Jeremy Allen White Says He's Experienced 'Terribly Low Lows' Amid Split and Private Life Becoming Public

The award-winning actor opens up about dealing with the overwhelming attention that comes with starring in a mega-hit series.

Jeremy Allen White knew what being a household name entailed after starring in Showtime's long-running dramedy, Shameless, but it wasn't until he landed the lead in FX's critically acclaimed seriesThe Bear, that he learned what superstardom entailed.

"It's been insane, a lot of high highs, a lot of terribly low lows," White tells British GQ of finding himself "hounded" by paparazzi and having his private life become "wrenchingly" public thanks as the show's success garners more attention. 

From grabbing a bite to eat with his co-stars to more intimate moments with those in his life, White admits that it's been jarring having his every move scrutinized within the public sphere. 

"It's such a weird aspect of this thing that I truly never thought I would ever deal with whatsoever," he tells the outlet, recalling an interaction with a paparazzo taking pictures of him after a run. "It's not fun, and it's not nice, and it's really weird."

White laments that it's especially disorienting to be thrust into the spotlight when his personal life is going through a rollercoaster of events.

White and his estranged wife, Addison Timlin, called it quits earlier this year, when she filed for divorce in May. The longtime couple met in 2008 and welcomed their first child, Ezer, a decade later. White and Timlin tied the knot in a courthouse ceremony back in 2019 and then, in December 2020, welcomed their second daughter, Dolores.

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According to the divorce filing obtained by ET, Timlin listed the date of separation as Sept. 1, 2022. Despite the split, they remain friendly, and they were even photographed embracing each other while attending Ezer's soccer game back in July.

Last month, White and Timlin struck a custody deal that allows him to spend time with his kids if he complies with several stipulations, which include undergoing alcohol testing five days a week.

According to court documents obtained by ET, White has to undergo Soberlink testing several days a week to prove he is not intoxicated while he's around his children. Soberlink is a portable professional-grade breathalyzer with wireless connectivity that uses state-of-the-art technology. It includes built-in safeguards such as facial recognition software to ensure that only the person ordered to be tested can use the device.

White was also ordered to attend individual therapy at least once a week and attend not less than two Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) meetings each week. In turn, Timlin may request proof of completion of AA meetings and weekly therapy, and he shall provide proof within three days of her request. 

Speaking with GQ, White confesses that he has taken the time during the SAG-AFTRA strike to spend time with his kids, which he lost out on while shooting the upcoming A24 film, The Iron Claw. "Leaving your kids at all is brutal," he tells the outlet. "Man, I miss my kids. It's harsh."

He shares that he's taken a break from working the rest of the year, explaining, "With everything going on in my personal life, I thought, 'OK, let's just pump the brakes in general, and maybe you don't work for a while. I made this choice to not work for the rest of the year and just be with my daughters and just slow it all down."

White will appreciate the time as FX recently announced that The Bear has been renewed for a third season, to debut in 2024.

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Created by Christopher Storer, the Emmy-nominated FX comedy series tells the story of fine-dining chef Carmy Berzatto (White), who returns home to save his family's failing Chicago sandwich shop, The Original Beef, in the wake of his brother Michael's (Jon Bernthal) suicide. To do so, he teams up -- and oftentimes butts heads -- with sous chef Sydney Adamu (Ayo Edebiri). In season 2, Carmy and Sydney work together with the rest of the kitchen's beloved staff to develop a new, high-end restaurant, The Bear. 

"The Bear, which wowed audiences in its first season only to achieve even greater heights in season two, has become a cultural phenomenon," said Nick Grad, President of FX Entertainment, in a press release. "We're so proud to partner with Christopher Storer, Joanna Calo, Josh Senior, and the rest of the creative team, as well as the brilliant cast led by Jeremy Allen White, Ayo Edebiri and Ebon Moss-Bachrach. What they and the crew have done is truly remarkable, and we and our partners at Hulu join fans in looking forward to the next chapter in the story of The Bear."

The series received an impressive 13 Emmy nominations for its first season, after initially premiering in July 2022. The second season, which premiered in June 2023, debuted to even more critical acclaim and is expected to secure more nominations next year. 

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